Twenty years ago, September 19th was a Saturday. The night I walked into the Lone Tree in downtown Minneapolis. And met the man who would one day be my husband. I remember it as being packed because when I got in the door I could only stand near the entrance and look around for a moment. That’s when I saw him. Jeff was on the dance floor, surrounded by people bouncing and gyrating, but he was standing stock-still. And looking right at me. A feeling of profound knowing, s